Why do older people “sexually deviate”?
“The 67-year-old is still playing outside the “Road Chicken” (dark) who is twenty or thirty years younger than him!
“Auntie in the line between the lines, revealing deep grievances.
In recent years, there has indeed been a trend of “ageing”, and the news of the elderly has been reported from time to time.
In parks, plazas and even on the streets, there are “rogues” for the elderly, and some hair salons also have dark massage rooms. The target group is also the elderly with weaker spending power.
It is worth noting that some elderly people are not ashamed of this.
In a hair salon, a 70-year-old but physically strong man flirts with several women.
He bluntly said that he earns about 4,000 yuan a month and basically spends all of it.
He said that while pointing to the women, he was quite proud.
A 20-year-old Chen Bo, who married his wife Zheng, married for 58 years and filed for divorce.
After the divorce, he almost went to a nearby sauna to find a lady massage, and also sent gold ornaments to the lady, who spent 10,000 yuan a month.
Zheng mother-in-law called her daughter to follow him, and when he entered the bathroom, he called the police and said that someone was jealous.
When the police came, they found Chen Bo lying on the bed in the room, the belt was loose, but there was no evidence to prove that he was jealous, so he was not dealt with.
Afterwards, Chen Bo actually found a complaint from the media, saying that since the divorce, why did the ex-wife still control me?
Asked why he wanted to send gold ornaments to the lady. He said that the lady gave him a massage and chatted with him many times, which made him have a “subtle feeling” for her. So, when the lady said that her birthday is coming, ask him.When he gave the gift, he went to buy gold ornaments for her.
I hurt my family and hurt myself. Why are you going to be so old?
Dr. Psychology analyzes that when people are old, they will have a fear that life is getting closer to dusk.
At this time, some people will follow the rules, for fear of inadvertently destroying their lives innocence; but the other person is the opposite, they feel that anyway, it is better to indulge in the rest of their lives, money has little meaning for them,As long as they are happy, they are willing to spend money.
However, these elderly people who are desperate to seek happiness may not have thought about how much harm they will bring to their families.
An aunt said in the letter: “I am very painful in spirit, sometimes I really want to die.” The elderly are also embarrassed.
Last year, the Hefei City patrol police found an elderly man and a middle-aged woman in the rental house who were in the process of trading, and they summoned the two to the police station for review.
The two confessed to the prostitution activities and were placed in administrative detention.
Because the elderly party has been over 80 years old, it will not be implemented in accordance with the relevant laws. When the police inform their children to come and accept the person, the family members are ashamed to see people, no one is willing to come, and finally the police have to send them back.at home.
In fact, the elderly people who are jealous may also hurt themselves.
A 63-year-old man had “complainted”. He was smuggled into a rental house by a dark road beside a road in Liwan District. Several “policemen” rushed in just after taking off his clothes.
After the “Police” registered his personal information, he made a “private”, otherwise he informed his family.
As a result, the old man was forced to hand over more than 8,000 yuan of “private money.”
Later, I contacted the Public Security Bureau of Liwan District to confirm that those “policemen” were all fake.
In addition, it is easy to get sexually transmitted diseases when seeking flowers and flowers. If you are over-excited during the “windy”, it is easy to induce cardiovascular emergency.
And sneaking to do these things has a negative impact on mental health.
More care for the elderly. The embarrassing behavior of a very small number of elderly people has also caused overheating discussions on the Internet.
Some netizens think that if the elderly have sexual needs and are widowed or single, what should I do?
Remarriage is not easy, so the old man is only squatting and oppressive.
If you let the elderly who are not completely aging or may still be living in a living room, and suffer from the desires of the elderly for years, is this fair to the elderly?
The elderly are perhaps the only way for the elderly to resolve their desires.
Some netizens believe that no matter what the reason, whether it is young people or the elderly, whether they are single or widowed, it is illegal and should be stopped.
If you have “needs”, you can break the law. If there is a need for money, can you go to corruption and even steal it?
A person should exercise restraint and abide by the social ethics.
However, for the elderly, you can’t condemn it.Experts believe that the “sexual derailment” of the elderly, in addition to the elderly themselves, the social and family disregard for the “sexual needs” of the elderly, does not regard “sex” as one of the important content of caring for the elderly, but also a very important factor.
Director Chen of a hospital pointed out that it is necessary to give a correct guidance to the “sexual derailment” of the elderly and to pay attention to the spiritual sustenance of the elderly.
The elderly also have sexual desire, but sexual desire is divided into two types: contact desire and rehabilitation desire. If the elderly can take care of the best, if not, they can get physical and psychological through kissing, hugging, caressing, talking, emotional communication and other activities with their husbands.Satisfied on.
Single elderly people can take the initiative to make friends with the opposite sex. If you have the right, you can consider remarriage.
If the elderly have difficulties in making friends, they can also participate in mountaineering, singing, dancing, practicing calligraphy and other cultural activities to make the body more enjoyable and healthier.
For older people who really need sex, they can also try alternatives under the guidance of a specialist.